The Reality Formula™:
When we believe what we think, we feel and act as if it’s true … and when we feel and act as if it’s true, then we act in ways that will prompt others to give us the evidence we seek.
The Reality Formula™ is an actual formula that all minds operate out of, whether we are conscious of it or not.
The Reality Formula™ provides a process based on certain founding guiding principles that helps us achieve personal happiness and success.
The Reality Formula™ is applicable to all aspects of life, from the personal to family, classroom, and into the work place, We see it played out in politics, religion, and wherever humans are interacting with others.
After thirty years of observing these dynamics in the families and individuals of her clients, Lynne Forrest, Author and Life Coach for personal growth, developed a model for peace that is simple, highly effective, and continuously expanding. This is where The Reality Formula™ began. The search for the antidote to the victim triangle has been long, but productive. Much has been learned and applied with tremendous success. The lives of whole families, including grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc., have been transformed for the better – changes that come from the inside so that, even when difficult challenges remain, there is still peace, rather than major drama. Lynne wrote a book about her findings.
And then Danielle Alvarez-Greer stepped into the picture several years ago when she, as one who had experienced the transformative power of The Reality Formula™ firsthand, gently inspired Lynne, with her love for children in general, but it was her passionate desire to share the inner peace she was personally experiencing with her children that won the day.
Together, Lynne and Danielle developed The Reality Formula™ For Kids. Right away they began to bring parents and their children together for weekend workshops using the model to test it on the ground, and further refine it. The results in the participating families were immediate and profoundly successful. We heard from families a year and more after their experience who reported seeing continuing progress in themselves and their children from what they learned from a single weekend experience of The Reality Formula™.
Here on this website we will be sharing our outreach efforts in spreading these “seeds of Reality” through The Reality Formula™.
The Reality Formula™ For Kids is the first application we developed (there is The Reality Formula™ In The Workplace in the works) simply because our kids are our most important concern – rightfully so! – and we are concerned most about their well-being. Since our kids strike closest to home, we put five years of focused attention on developing and testing The Reality Formula™ For Kids with kids at home and in the classroom, and feel confident we have a model that works exceedingly well!
The Reality Formula™ is a powerfully effective model for conflict resolution and is especially helpful in these times when bullying runs rampant in the classroom. It teaches us how to steer our children (and ourselves) back to peace and harmony.
We organized The Reality Formula™ For Kids into steps for turning unhappy kids into happy kids – all based on the same guiding principles that this process is founded on and that define Reality.
The Reality Formula™, in its desire to reach beyond our local influence, has now developed a way to share The Reality Formula™ For Kids with you no matter where you may be! Called, The Happy Kid Toolkit©, we have put the keys in a toolbox that will be available online that will soon be available! The Happy Kid Toolkit© as it is called, includes everything you need to successfully share this model with your kids. It includes a detailed training DVD that will walk you step by step through the simple, but radically effective, process of teaching your kids to become self-responsible, self-accountable, and self-regulating, kids who know how to be content even when things aren't going their way!
Included in the toolkit, is all the tools that The Reality Formula™ For Kids uses to teach parents and teachers how to move kids beyond their victim roles, out of the bully, to a place of self-responsibility and freedom from unhappiness.
The Happy Kid Toolkit© will be ready and available for ordering online SOON!