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Rescuing “Professional” Victims Makes Matters Worse!

    Rescuing those who play victim as their primary mode of survival not only promotes a victim lifestyle, but may in fact be a major contributor to it.I am NOT saying we should not help others.However, to truly help someone there must be reciprocity.Humans need to feel useful and capable in order todevelop the self-esteem needed to do well in life.“Professional” victims see themselves

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Compassion versus Pity

Yesterday, as I was walking out of the Ladies restroom at Walmart, a woman in a wheelchair was coming in and, without any sign of hesitation, she asked me to help her go to the bathroom! I was surprised and so impressed with her beautiful ability to ask for what she needed in such a wonderfully open way. Of course, I said yes …. I

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