The Reality Formula® Is Both The Explanation and The Antidote for Victim Consciousness

The Drama TriangleWhat is the Real­ity Formula®?

The Real­ity For­mula® is both the under­stand­ing of how vic­tim con­scious­ness works, AND the anti­dote for it.

We think a thought. We believe it. We feel (the feel­ings that go with ) it. We act (as if) it (is true). We (act in ways that invite oth­ers to help us) prove it.

Said sim­ply, (one more time for the sake of repetition … )


The Real­ity For­mula® is a for­mula that describes what all minds do. It is the human way. The Real­ity For­mula® describes a process for awak­en­ing from vic­tim con­scious­ness through Observer con­scious­ness, which is the built-in abil­ity that we humans have that allows us to wit­ness our own thought life and make dif­fer­ent choices. How­ever, in many, if not most humans, it is a func­tion that lies dor­mant within us, shriv­eled from lack of inten­tional use.

Nonethe­less, we uncon­sciously apply the 10 universal laws described in the Real­ity For­mula® every day of our lives. We blindly believe what we think, cre­at­ing for our­selves a scary real­ity that we then blame on oth­ers or the world out­side of us. We know no other way. Few of us have ever even con­sid­ered that we don’t have to believe what we think. Instead we feel at the mercy of our own think­ing as we go on blindly believ­ing the same old unhappy thoughts, gen­er­at­ing the same old mis­er­able feel­ings and react­ing in the same old non-productive ways. In other words, we cre­ate a neural path­way of mis­ery, which then becomes our default reac­tion in life.

We are the ones who cre­ate the world we expe­ri­ence by react­ing out of our own ter­ri­fy­ing beliefs about our­selves and the world. If we believe we are worth­less, we feel worth­less, we act (treat our­selves) as if we are worth­less, which invites oth­ers to treat us accord­ingly, and proves to us that we are, indeed, worthless.

The Real­ity For­mula® takes the mind’s own way of func­tion­ing, and teaches us how to redi­rect our thoughts and align with Uni­ver­sal guid­ing prin­ci­ples for Real­ity that bring about a state of peace we never imag­ined was pos­si­ble for us.

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