The Three Gifts of Victim Consciousness

Each of the three roles on the victim triangle teach a particular lesson that, once learned, becomes the gift of that role on the Observer Triangle.

The victim, for instance, teaches surrender and humility through powerlessness. Learning when we are truly powerless is part of what it is to come alignment with Reality. The Victim transformed becomes the Observer who knows how to surrender their personal will to Source.

The Persecutor on the triangle teaches about boundaries. In true learning fashion we bounce from boundariless-ness (if there is such a word!) to walls where we are totally locked in even as we lock others out. On the Observer Triangle the persecutor/bully becomes a respectful leader (Bully's are generally misguided leaders).

The third role, the Rescuer offers us the gift of authentic service. through rescuing we learn how to separate our need for approval from being a true server or conduit for Source. On the Observer triangle, we refer to the transformed Rescuer as an Empowering Friend – one who does not see others as needing a rescue but trusts their process, no matter how painful it may be to be what they need to do.

When you find yourself on the victim triangle, look for the opportunity to transform that victim role into it's gift instead.

Blessings, Lynne

One Response

  1. Thank you for introducing me to the Life transformational Victim Cycle, Lynne. Also, thanking and blessing my teacher for sharing your work. The understanding of the Observer Cycle helps me see the light side of P-R-V in complete acceptance of their shadow side through victim consciousness. Thus, being true gifts in our journey of Oneness with the Source. Love, light and blessings to you.

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