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The Reality Formula™ for Couples (RFFC) Weekend
October 29, 2016 @ 9:00 am - October 30, 2016 @ 5:00 pm
LYNNE FORREST PRESENTS HER MODEL OF REALITY FORMULA FOR COUPLES™!
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR HOW TO MAKE YOUR PARTNER HAPPY, OR HOW TO GET THEM TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, THEN THIS IS PROBABLY NOT THE WORKSHOP FOR YOU!
IF YOU THINK YOU NEED TO CHANGE THEM SO YOU CAN BE HAPPY, THEN YOU'RE ABOUT TO GAIN A WHOLE NEW PERSPECTIVE ON WHAT MAKES HAPPINESS POSSIBLE AND WHAT DOESN'T!
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR INNER PEACE AND HARMONY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER, THEN THIS WORK IS FOR YOU!
IF YOU ARE READY TO STOP BLAMING YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER, THEN YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS THIS POWERFUL AND RELATIONSHIP TRANSFORMING MODEL FOR COUPLES!
REALITY FORMULA FOR COUPLES OFFERS A RADICALLY DIFFERENT IDEA ABOUT WHAT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS AND HOW TO ACHIEVE IT.
JOIN US FOR A POWERFUL WEEKEND AND LEARN TOOLS FOR CREATING A POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER – AND YOURSELF!
The traditional understanding about relationship is that a good relationship requires we learn how to meet one another's needs. This is based on the erroneous notion that our happiness is up to someone else; that it is something someone else provides for us – which implies that if we're not happy, they are to blame! No wonder most couples are so angry with each other!
While most couples treatment centers around this idea of learning to meet one another's needs, such an approach cannot work in the long run. Why? Because making, and especially maintaining, someone else's happiness is IMPOSSIBLE! (Perhaps you've tried? ;)) And it's impossible for a reason! That's because it's NOT our job! How can we be expected to make something happen that is not our job to do?
BUT, if we are not here to make one another happy and meet one another's needs, then why ARE we together as a couple?
Reality Formula for Couples™ teaches that our function in relationship is not to make each other happy – although I am NOT implying that the best relationships are not also kind, loving, and considerate – they are indeed! Humans are those things naturally when we are emotionally centered and in personal balance.
The Reality Formula for Couples™ suggests that the real purpose for healthy relationship is to encourage and support one another towards becoming our own highest and best Selves. We do that by holding the mirror for one another which reflects our beliefs, and defense strategies, where we are in alignment with Life, and we are not in right balance; in essence, we mirror to one another what our own relationship with ourselves looks like.
Join us for this powerful weekend of experiential learning as we discover the many ways we block Love, and explore ways to open our hearts more fully to one another through acceptance and learn what Love truly is and what it isn't.
You will discover that Love is NOT:
- Efforts to coerce, seduce, manipulate, or control
- Attempts to turn our partner into being who we think they should be.
- Attempts to win them over through bribery or gifts
- A “tit for tat” mentality
- Honest, open, and relentlessly kind
- Self Responsible
- Respectful of Others
- Empathetic Listening
- Authentic in Response
Lynne will teach you about how we actually train our partners to treat us through the way we interact with ourselves and them. You will learn that we tend to treat those closest to us the same way we treat ourselves internally. (ex: they don't value us, we don't value us… etc”) and what to do about it.
“Come spend a weekend with me here on the mountain, and spend time with other high consciousness people who, like you, are seeking inner peace, and harmony with others. I promise it to be a weekend you will never forget!” – Lynne
*COME WITH, OR WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER – RELATIONSHIPS CAN CHANGE FOR THE BETTER WHETHER BOTH PARTNERS PARTICIPATE IN THE PROCESS OR NOT!
And it all takes place at Forest Haven in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains in Monteagle, Tennessee: A Place where the Sacred Happens
Lodging is not included but is available (as space allows) at a small additional fee for those who don’t mind sharing the living space at Forest Haven.
Vegetarian Lunch on both days is provided as well as Breakfast on Sunday. Dinners are not included.
$1050 Individual / $1750 Couples
Non-Refundable deposit required to register: $300 Individual / $500 Couples.
EARLY REGISTRATION SPECIAL! REGISTER BY OCTOBER 15, 2016 AND PAY $900 AS INDIVIDUAL AND $1550 FOR COUPLE
To register, or gather more information at (423)698-0814 or email firstname.lastname@example.org
*14 continuing education hours of credit for completing this program.
*OPEN TO ALL! This workshop is a required course for those seeking certification as a Reality Formula™ Level 2 Facilitator.
Learn more about Lynne Forrest
Read some of Lynne's blog posts about relationship:
What is Healthy Relationship