We look at ourselves and one another through a lens that sees only the projections we've cast onto others. Projections come from our own (self) judgments. We see our story about ourselves and unconsciously project it onto them and then we start reacting as if it’s true. This, in turn, activates a dance between the two of us that will end up verifying our stories about each other. There’s no way around it. It’s what we do.
But there is another way of seeing the world that satisfies on a deeper level – and that is to see it through the eyes of a Self that remembers what reality is ….
How do we remember what reality is? By observing and applying Universal principles of life and … by meeting every stressful thought with curiosity and inquiry – rather than with negative judgment.