Victim Mind is Fear Based

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Fear is the dri­ving emo­tion when we are in vic­tim­hood. Regard­less of what role on the Vic­tim Tri­an­gle we may be oper­at­ing out of, fear pre­dom­i­nates because vic­tim­hood comes out of fear based thinking.

In life there are two pre­vail­ing emo­tional fre­quen­cies: “Love” or “Fear.” Every feel­ing falls into one or the other of those two categories.

Emo­tional responses gen­er­ated by fear include anger, hurt, shame, sad­ness, anx­i­ety, guilt, depres­sion, grief, etc. Such feel­ings cause con­trac­tion and shut down the heart. Such feel­ings leave us feel­ing “at the mercy of” what we per­ceive, as vic­tims, to be a scary world.

Emo­tional responses gen­er­ated from love include joy, con­gru­ency, hap­pi­ness, con­nec­tion, appre­ci­a­tion, grat­i­tude, accep­tance, trust, etc. These emo­tional responses open the heart and align us with a higher life fre­quency. They are feel­ings that align us with a lov­ing Uni­ver­sal Source that guides and pro­tects us.

“A Course In Mir­a­cles” states that love and fear can­not inhabit the same space at the same time because they have such oppos­ing vibra­tional fre­quen­cies. We are either func­tion­ing out of the lower “fear” fre­quency or we are aligned with and trans­mit­ting the higher “love” vibration.

Our work is to “adjust” our emo­tional fre­quency from fear to a higher fre­quency where love prevails.