The Three Faces of Victim — An Overview of the Drama Triangle

The Drama Triangle

By Lynne For­rest Whether we know it, or not, most of us react to life as vic­tims. When­ever we refuse to take respon­si­bil­ity for our­selves, we are uncon­sciously choos­ing to react as vic­tim. This inevitably cre­ates feel­ings of anger, fear, guilt or inad­e­quacy and leaves us feel­ing betrayed, or taken advan­tage of by oth­ers. Victim-hood […]

Forest Haven is being prepared for your arrival …


Every year we offer two work­shops out­doors on the pond-stage pavil­ion in the spring and then two more in the fall. These are the times of the year when For­est Haven offers an ideal out­door set­ting for our Real­ity For­mula™ week­end work­shops — when the weather is gen­er­ally warm and sunny and the air is […]

When is enough enough? How to be kind and still draw the line …

On the path to peace, we encounter the strug­gle for bal­ance between being con­sciously kind and lov­ing and tol­er­at­ing the intol­er­a­ble. The Guid­ing Prin­ci­ples of Real­ity teach us that Love is the answer … that there is a gift in every sin­gle encounter, includ­ing the most painful ones. The prin­ci­ples empha­size that we must give […]

Reality Formula™ Offers Tools for Awakening

Are you ready to take the next step? Are you will­ing to com­mit to inner peace? Are you pre­pared to uncover the unhappy beliefs that are hold­ing you back? Are you com­mit­ted to gain­ing a new con­scious­ness by retrain­ing your thoughts? Are you open to befriend­ing Real­ity even when you don’t like the way things […]

Building New Neural Pathways to Peace with Reality Formula™

The Real­ity For­mula™ WE THINK IT. WE BELIEVE IT. WE FEEL IT. WE ACT IT. WE PROVE IT TO OURSELVES AND OTHERS. The Real­ity For­mula™ is a for­mula that describes what all human minds do. Believ­ing the thoughts we think is what human do. We think a thought and auto­mat­i­cally pre­sume that it is true, […]

Why The Reality Formula™ Will Not Work For You!

(A hard-hitting sum­mary, writ­ten by Jesse Rob­bins, Cre­ator of, that tells us like it is about why prin­ci­ples of Truth — no mat­ter how well writ­ten, expressed, or pre­sented — are dif­fi­cult, if not impos­si­ble, to assim­i­late. A must read for those who are seri­ous about per­sonal trans­for­ma­tion! Lynne) Any good work­shop, book, or […]